Thursday, March 31, 2011

Fond Farewells

The day came when it was time to say goodbye to some of the best missionaires in the entire world! We had dreaded this day for quite sometime. Not only were we losing a beloved AP but every one of these missionaries had found a special place in our hearts. The three sisters were revered and admired as were the five elders.
As usual they spent their last day in a Career Training Workshop. The traditional Rudiyaki Chicken Dinner followed with a very special testimony meetings. This time there were tons of tears and we heard each missionary share the things of their hearts. Then came the exodus to the bus station and we wept as we waved goodbye!


Those departing were: Sister De Fiesta, Sister Valdoz, Sister Concepcion, Elder Ferrer, Elder Hausia, Elder Acha, Elder Obando and kneeling were Elder Rondilla and Elder Malilom



Look at those awesome people in the back of the bus!

We have a motto here in the Philippines Cauayan Mission of "No Regrets" we want every missionary to be able to leave at the appointed time and say "I have done what I came to do and I have no regrets!" Well Elder Rondilla decided to leave a parting message for the other missionaries and he took out his dentures to add his funny twist. We showed this picture at the end of our Transfer Day slide show and every one cracked up!

P-Day Fun at the Mission Home

Elder Petrucci, Elder Mulliner, Elder Brown and Chef Elder Ellis
While one group was golfing with Elder Russell another came in for some dental work and Elder Ellis offered to make pizza if I would furnish the ingredients. He had worked at Papa Murphys before coming out on his mission and he knew all their secret tricks to make a delicious chicken, bacon and ranch pizza. The pizza wasn't only beautiful but it was absolutely delicious!

P-Day Fun

Elder Russell (one of our senior missionaries) loves to golf and when he heard that there was a golf course in Ilagan (about 1/2 hour from here) he rounded up a bunch of elders to accompany him on a recent P-Day. It was a very warm day and they came back with all kinds of crazy tales to tell and sunburns. I think they had fun.


Elder Larson graciously lent some of his "cool" hats to the missionaries. Only two accepted his offer!

Elder Sanders and Elder Elgan arrived before the rest of the golfers and were happy to eat some American cereal at the Mission Home.

Our grandson Tyler loves his new bunkbed and was happy to show it off via SKYPE.
We had fun skyping with our grandkids who wanted to show off their new bunkbeds. Several people came into the office while they were on and heard their squeals of delight. Oh how we miss our Mia and Ty and Ava and Mayah. They are so precious to us and we are very grateful for modern technology that allows us to see them in their own bedrooms!

A Birthday Party for Sister Uys Mom!

Our friend is Rachel Uy the second from the right. Her father is on her right, the birthday girl--her mother is on her left and next to the mother is Rachel's sister, Mina. Our friends Ed and Winnie Delos Reyes are in front.
The Uys are the party people in Cauayan and they are always so gracious to invite us to their family events. Recently Rachel Uy invited us to help celebrate her mother's birthday. We know her mom because she is always at the Uys parties. She is a lovely lady and we enjoyed attending her party.

What a Fantastic Saturday


The day started off by me speaking for Alicia District's Relief Society Birthday Celebration. After I spoke each branch performed a folk dance, complete with costumes, etc. Then I had to leave to attend some baptisms in Santiago but Sister Breese stayed and watching cooking demonstrations, and listened to each branches women's choir. It was quite a celebration.
These sisters all had darling matching dresses and hats.

It was obvious that they had practiced many hours. All in all there were 7 groups that performed.
 After my visit to Alicia we ran to Santiago to witness 15 people being baptized. It was a happy event and I'm so glad we were able to attend. While in Santiago I was able to spend a few minutes visiting the Santiago Stake Relief Society Birthday Party. Each ward had a display table full of amazing crafts that were made from recycled items. I was absolutely blown away by the quality of these items.
This was a great group of missionaries and new converts! What an exciting day.
This table had numerous purses and baskets made out of candy wrappers.


 We ended the day by going to some baptisms in Catabban (Burgos District). All in all we had 41 baptisms that day. We wish we could have attended each one of them!

Elder Poloai and Elder Rausa with their three baptismal candidates.

Family Home Evening with a Special Family

Sister Webre has a steady hand and didn't knock any of the matches off!

Now it's the father's turn. The children really giggled when they saw their tatay (father) try it.
The sister missionaries serving here in Cauayan were planning a family home evening with a wonderful family and invited me to tag along. (Sister Webre, Stewart and Martine'z.) They had a lesson on gratitude and then played a game. The object was for everyone to take turns stacking matchsticks on top of a glass bottle without knocking any previously placed matchsticks off the bottle. Once all sticks were placed we had to remove them one-by-one. We all sang together, laughed and enjoyed each other. They were a very precious family and I'm so grateful that I was able to spend the evening with them.

Saying Goodbye to Elder Rondilla

Usually President has the APs (Assistant to the President) spend their last several cycles back in the trenches but he decided to keep Elder Rondilla as an AP until the end of his mission. In the past we always plan a special dinner for the AP a few days before he goes to his last area. We let the AP select their favorite meal and then we serve that.
About a week before Elder Rondilla was to go home, I asked him to start thinking about what food he'd like to be served at his farewell dinner. I expected him to say adobo, or some other filipino dish. Instead, he surprised us by asking that I make American-Style Pizza, salad with white sauce (Ranch Dressing) and Blueberry Cheesecake! Is he Americanized or what! After hunting high and low for good cheese, and real cream cheese we were able to pull it off.
There is a funny story behind the salad with white sauce. Last summer a few days after we arrived President set out to interview each missionary. While he was interviewing I visited with the companion. I asked about their families, their health, and their favorite foods among other things. Elder Rondilla confessed to me that when I asked him about his favorite food he thought, what would a sophistacated American woman want to hear from me. And he knew that Americans liked salad. So he answered, "salad." WHen I asked him what kind he said "with white sauce." The funny thing was he had never ever tried salad, let alone with white sauce. So when he came in for training as a zone leader I prepared spaghetti for lunch and made a green salad with white sauce (ranch dressing) especially for him. He later told the other missionaries that it was his fault, because he had requested it and he was sorry it was so terrible! (He didn't like it.) But after eating it on numerous occassions he developed a taste for it.



 A few days later Ed and Winnie Delos Reyes hosted a farewell dinner for him at their restaurant. He was really spoiled by the time he left!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

An Afternoon Roxas

When the president needs to see some missionaries, members or leaders in an area, ( or sometimes he is working with the elders in their area) I often tag along and spend the morning or afternoon working with the sister missionaries. On this day I worked with Sister Tadifa and Sister Casurog in Roxas. We visited a number of wonderful families. Sister Casurog has only been a missionary for five weeks and I was totally blown away by her great teaching skills. Sister Tadifa has been a great trainer and is also an amazing teacher. While I was sitting on a tiny wooden bench in this tiny home I looked out the door and watched a mother hen sitting in a basket on top of their neighbors home. A rooster was pacing back and forth on the roof. It was a funny sight! The little girl in this picture got up during their lesson and walked over and picked up a big white radish and dipped it into a little saucer with vinegar. She took some bites and then put the radish in the dish. Later she walked over and ate a few more bites. I wasn't sure if that was her snack or lunch but she sure seemed to enjoy it!

Zone Meetings in Nueva Vizcaya

Once a month our zone leaders hold a zone meeting. This month all of these meetings were held on the same morning. That meant we could only attend one meeting. We headed to Nueva Vizcaya since the President had a lot of people to interview there that day. Elder Naylor and Elder Jenkins always come up with interesting activities during their meetings. This time they began with a relay where they timed each companionship to see how long it would take to put on a white shirt and tie while holding a hand full of dirt. The rule was you couldn't drop anything out of your hand. It became obvious that they had to help each other out. In the end, the APs won with a record time of 1 minute 8 seconds!
Sister Pence and Sister Ambata work together to race the clock.

Elder Geddes, Medina, Shackelford and Magsonic looking like eager missionaries!
The rest of the meeting focused on what various church leaders have said about the importance of sharing the gospel to others. Each missionary was able to speak for a few minutes about the quote that touched him/her the most. It was an inspiring meeting.

A Great Day in Tuguegarao



On Saturday there were lots of baptisms in every corner of our mission. We headed up to Tuguegarao and were able to take part in three baptismal services where seven individuals got baptized. Our missionaries are working so hard to share the glorious gospel message with others. We love them and appreciate their dedication and hard work! We love these new members and are excited to watch them grow as they become part of our wonderful worldwide church.

Special Visitors

Sister DeFiesta and Sister Sajol came from Naguilian

Sister Valdoz and Sister Benes came from Alinguigan

Sister Casurog and Sister Tadifa came from Roxas
The Church is so good about keeping us up to date on any approaching weather concern. After the earth quake in Japan we were encouraged to evacuate any of our missionaries living in low areas near a river or large body of water. We had three sets of sister missionaries that we needed to move and invited those six sisters to come spend the night in the Mission Home. We loved having them for dinner and getting to visit a little with them before it was time to go to bed. By morning we had word that the threat has passed, which was a good thing because all three sets of missionaries had busy days planned and had to eat a quick breakfast before heading back to their areas.

Elder Larson Has a Birthday! Sister Webre Has a Birthday!

It seems like we celebrated Elder Larson's birthday several times last week. We had shrimp fettucine one night (President Carlos was the chef), with the famous bread pig. Then we celebrated both Sister Webre and Elder Larson's birthday by serving ice cream and cake to the missionaries serving in Cauayan. I made Sharron Green's Kentucky Butter Cake and we served it with vanila icecream. It was yummy. Then on Sunday for our regular staff potluck dinner Sister Larson baked a huge lasagna and we had a special chocolate decadent cake from Sweet Nothings. So after packing on an extra 5 pounds in one week, we all need to fast for several days.

Boy, life is rough here in the far corners of the Philippines!

The Bananas, the Girl and the Goose

As you can see in this picture Sister Stewart and I were teaching a lovely woman in front of their little home. Their grandmother (lola) sold bananas and a few veggies from a shelf on their porch. The little girl kept standing on her tippie toes and pulling down  bananas to eat. She ate four and then on the fifth one she laid it in a basket on the ground and ran off to play. I watched as a big goose waddled over and ate her banana. In a few minutes the little girl returned and wondered where her banana went. When I told her that the goose had eaten it she huffed off. Soon she returned and got another banana down, peeled it, sat it in the basket and ran off to play. Again the goose come over and ate it. Again the girl returned as was mad. This time she pulled a banana down, sat it in the basket without peeling it. A few minutes after she ran off to play the goose came back. He picked up the banana, peeled it with his beak and ate the banana! When the little girl came back she was soooooooo mad at that goose. She went after it yelling and shaking her fist. It was the funniest thing to watch!
This is the woman we were teaching with her baby boy and the funny little girl. The other kids were neighbors. I wish I had taken a picture of the goose. But I didn't want to cause a distraction in the middle of the lesson that Sister Stewart was teaching to this family.

Sweet Nothings

We stopped in for a birthday cake for Elder Larson and Elder Breese ended up treating us all to cream puffs!
Luckily we found Sweet Nothings the first few weeks we landed here in Cauayan City. It is run by a wonderful lady who was trained in French Pastry. She has this darling little European-like shop just down the street from the Mission Home. We stop there whenever we need a taste of civilization or when we have a special occassion. Her cream puffs cost 18 pesos (approx. 36 cents). They are to die for as are her cakes and other goodies.

More Only in the Philippines




Every day I see something that just makes me do a double take. Here are a few recent things I've seen.

Only in the Philippines...

Do they dry tobacco in neat rows in the sunshine. Once they are dried they move them under shelter to protect them from the rain. There is quite a lot of tabacco grown in this part of the Philippines and actually it smells really good when it's drying.


Do you see tons of trash lining the banks of beautiful rivers. People bathe, play and wash their clothes in these rivers. Here I'm working with two wonderful sisters and couldn't believe all the heaps of trash along the river banks.

Are pigs tied up in the strangest places. Here was a grouchy piglet that was tied to a stake along a busy pathway. When I took his picture he snorted at me!


Do you see missionaries clinging to the side of Jeepneys. We were headed to Nueva Vizcaya and drove through the busy town of Santiago. There was Elder Brown hanging on the side of a Jeepney!


Do you see tons and tons of wires at every intersection. No wonder they have so many "brown outs!"


DO they love roasted pigs so much that they make bread replicas at fancy bakeries. This one was purchased at the wonderful Crown Bakery in Tugeugarao and served at Elder Larson's birthday party.

Do they have hibiscus growing wild along the side of the road that are bigger than a dinner plate. This one must have been a foot wide! It was glorious.
Is everyone selling something! This street vendor had several hundred baskets, mirrors, ratan shelves, and chairs over a bamboo pole that he carried on his shoulders.

Friday, March 11, 2011

All is well

We moved about 20 companionships to higher ground. Six of our sisters spend the night here in the Mission Home. But in the end the Tsunami didn't hit the Philippines. So early this morning everyone will head back home. We are so grateful that nothing happened here. We are so sorry for those others around the world that were effected.
Thanks for your prayers!

Tsunami Warning

We have received alerts from the church that parts of the Philippines is under a Tsunami Warning. We have moved all  our missionaries that live in the lowlands to higher ground as there is a chance that during the night the rivers will rise. We are keeping a close tab on everyone. We will publish posts as soon as we have additional information.
Our prayers are with our brothers and sisters in Japan, particularly Sendai, where our oldest son served. Your prayers for this part of the world are much appreciated!
Sister Carlos

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Elder Rondilla

Christ's Image in his countenance….


I’d like to introduce you to one of our great missionaries!

The first time he saw a white man was when he was young, probably around 3 years old. There were actually two white men, young men wearing white shirts and neckties. He was afraid of them but something inside of his tiny heart told him that their paths would cross someday.

His home was on a mountain where his family harvested and sold papayas, bananas and crops. They raised squash, egg plant, beans and rice. By age 5 he was expected to work out in the fields during planting and harvesting time. And until he was in his teens his family lived in a tree house. Every night his father would raise the rope ladder, offering protection from the environment. There was no electricity, no running water, no stove or refrigeration. Meals were cooked over a wood fire.

He never owned a toy or a book. But loved school and excelled in learning.

In high school he met a young man who was a Mormon—the only one in their school. Being naturally curious he asked the friend to tell him what he believed. He gained a testimony of the truthfulness of the missionaries’ message and desired to join the church. His mother, after much begging from him, signed the paper allowing him to be baptized. When his father found out, he was very angry at both the son and his mother. Once he was baptized he was active in Young Men’s Organization, and Seminary. For the first time in his life he owned a few books. Members could feel his genuine interest in learning all that he could learn and were happy to share books with him. He couldn’t get enough information about the church and Jesus Christ. He rarely missed church, walking an hour to where he could catch a jeepney for a 45 minute ride to the chapel. To pay for the transportation he hired out to members of the church who needed some extra help. He did laundry, cleaning, field work—you name it. Every Saturday afternoon was spent working to earn the little bit of money needed to ride to church. When he didn’t have money he would walk, leaving home at 4:30 am to make the 9:00 church meeting. Can you imagine walking 41/2 hours to get to church?

Because he was such a good student he received a college scholarship and attended college for one year. Serving a mission would mean that he would jeopardize the scholarship but that’s not all. When he approached his parents about his decision to serve, his father gave him an ultimatum…”Choose your family or the church.”

From day one at the MTC he was like a sponge, absorbing every bit of information. He immersed himself in the scriptures and the work. He had the capacity to love people with all his heart and it didn’t take long for the members and investigators to feel his love for them. Each one of his companions has noted that their lives have changed from being in his presence. When he was given the assignment to serve as an Assistant to the President the room of missionaries erupted into a thunderous applause and they gave him a standing ovation. Many had tears of joy falling from their cheeks.

Early in his mission he was reading in the Liahona magazine where President Monson counseled missionaries with non-member families to write them every week. He started taking his mission to his parents by sharing his experiences in a weekly letter. He never missed a week. The first year went by and no response. They wouldn’t speak to him when he contacted them at Christmas. A few weeks ago, just weeks before he was released his got a letter from his sister saying that his mother was taking the missionary discussions and now wanting to learn more about the church.

Elder Rondilla is one of a kind. When he talks to people he has the ability to totally focus on them. Others can see it and feel it. He has an innocence that is truly remarkable and a desire to do what is right at all times. He can correct people without making enemies. One time President Carlos asked him to get some important information from a missionary with obedience problems. He said into the cell phone, “Elder you must tell the truth. This conversation is being recorded in Heaven.” The missionary complied and confessed to everything. He has no guile and quickly begs your forgiveness if he makes the smallest infraction. Anyone who looks at Elder Rondilla can see Christ’s image in his countenance. His face shines with light and hope and love. What a blessing he has been to the Philippines Cauayan Mission!

Visiting Tuguegarao Zone

We recently visited district meetings in Tuguegarao Zone. The zone leaders suspected that we heard that Brother Pete was cooking for them that day, but our visit was a coincidence. We did stay for Pete's delicious lunch--oh how he loves to spoil our missionaries. He made chicken adobo and rice, mashed potatoes, pork loin with a yummy BBQ sauce, mustard greens with delicious dory fish on top. I only like fish if it's not fishy and this was delicious.
The Russells followed us to Tuguegarao and then they went off and inspected each of the missionaries apartments in that zone.
Elder Griffin and Elder Ferrer are doing role plays with the sister missionaries.
They have a great spirit there and we loved spending a little extra time with those wonderful missionaries.
PS I have more photos to post from this day but I the blog is only allowing me to post one picture. Hopefully I can get that fixed!

Jochebed Turns 3

Jochebed is the one in red. She has Chinese heritage and the Chinese always wear red on their birthdays.
The Uy family is a very special family here in Cauayan. President Uy has been serving as a counselor in the district presidency but a few weeks ago he was called to serve as branch president for Cauayan 2nd Branch of the church. Together President and Sister Uy are amazing. He runs a computer shop and she does all the catering for a large hospital (feeding all their patients breakfast, lunch and dinner) and she owns a restaurant in town called Sizzling Mania. She is a dietitian and a wonderful cook.

They are so generous to invite us to all of their wonderful parties. They are extraordinary hosts.

Last week we were invited to their darling little girl, named Jochebed's (From the Bible the mother of Aaron and Moses) third birthday party. She is just the cutest, chubbiest little filipina girl you ever did see. And like most other 3 year olds she loves pink and purple and princesses. The cake was like a castle. It was a wonderful party and we loved being part of it.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Leadership Training

All zone leaders, district leaders and our two sister trainers come in every other month for a day of training. This time we focused on We Invite, They Commit, We Follow-Up. We always try to share some good teaching ideas and we incorporated a number of learning activities into the day of training.
Sister Breese was in charge of the meal and she ordered some delicious BBQ on a stick and served it with a macaroni salad and Texas sheet cake. (We added some rice, just in case)
We often broke up into small groups.

This was a rousing skit on lack of commitments. It gave us a good laugh while it taught us a good lesson.
Three of our current leaders will be leaving in a few weeks and so we all enjoyed listening to some of their parting words and testimonies.

March Zone Leader Council

We love our Zone Leaders!

We started March off with a bang with all 14 of our zone leaders coming in for their council meeting. President asked each companionship to report on the great things happening in their zones and any concerns they had. We love to hear these young leaders council together and share ideas. It's been a while since we posed for a ZLC photo.



We made homemade monkey bread and served it with juice and bananas. Many have to leave home before 6am to make it to the meeting. So they are hungry when they get here.






Burgos District Conference

We enjoyed meeting with the leaders and members in the Burgos District. On Saturday morning we visited a number of families. On the way I saw three huge pigs laying under a thatched roof. I had to jump out of the car to take a picture. That afternoon the Russells helped us train the leaders before the adult session.
On Sunday we spoke in two meetings. The choir was louder and more exuberant than any I've ever heard! It was really a treat to hear them sing!
What a life! When I pulled out the camera the pig in front stood up and posed for the picture!

Elder Vinas and Elder Macaisa prepare to head back to work after the conference.

Elder Brown and Elder Velez with Elder Hausia and Elder Biason, it's always wonderful to be able to see our missionaries and visit with them before and after each session.